You want to pay ME? Teaching ESL as an introvert – the highs and lows

I have a very quiet voice. I’m a quiet person, a little reserved, and self-promotion isn’t something that comes naturally to me. And now I spend about 30 hours of my week standing in front of other people instructing them on how to talk. And then taking their money for it. As expected, these don’t exactly go hand in hand.

I have various issues with teaching. Not with my students: the adults are wonderful, and interesting, and make me think; the kids are cute and funny and I laugh so many times each day. My issues are all internal and revolve around social anxiety.

Before I started teaching English, I was a literature student. I sat indoors and read books all day, and occasionally went to seminars where I didn’t say much. One on one with other people, I was good. In groups, well, it depended on the day. Then I came to Taiwan and started teaching, and it was such a learning curve for my social skills I don’t even know how to start describing it. Here’s a rundown of the issues I’ve experienced with how I am naturally, and how I need to be to teach.

1. Wait, I talk with you for an hour then take your money?

The question for beginner teachers is always, am I charging too much? Too little? What’s a fair amount? Add in a nervous disposition and a want-to-please personality and it’s a recipe for a highly-strung disaster. There’s such a tense moment when stating a price, and negotiating working hours. Then there’s having the confidence to organise a lesson, to pull a student back to the subject if the lesson strays, and to keep to time. Basically, to act like a teacher. This might not seem a big deal in text, but when you’re just starting out and your student is twice your age? It’s a one-way train to a land of sweaty palms and self-doubt. A few times I’ve drastically over-prepared a lesson and gone along to it with a large amount of material I haven’t used, because I’ve been so nervous about coming across well and making the student feel they’re getting value for money.

2. All the little children

Have you ever stood, clutching flashcards, in front of 17 two year olds? If so, you’ll know how terrifying it can be. I’ve had moments where I’ve lost control and have had 3 jumping on my back, several more fighting with each other, more stealing my teaching materials and ripping them/throwing them/hiding them. My teaching assistants are off in a corner dealing with the one who’s crying so hard she’s projectile vomiting, and the one who just wet himself. That’s only 11 accounted for, the other 6 are making escape attempts or are also screaming.

Just another day at the office.

The amount of nervous energy this takes is in no way small. And that’s just the morning. To keep them interested and engaged I have to be SO UPBEAT AND OUTGOING AND EXCITED ALL THE TIME. For an introvert, even without everything going on, it’s utterly exhausting.

3. Talk, talk, talk

After a day, a week, and definitely a month of 5+ hours of constant talking a day, when I finish work I just want to not talk anymore, or see people, or do things. This makes a social life pretty hard. I’ve found that the longer I work, the less I want to see friends. Social contact is becoming more of an effort for me than it’s been for years. At University, social contact was a break from work. Here, it almost is work.

I’m becoming far more selective in my social contact, and far more aware of what recharges and what further takes my energy. 7 months of teaching with only 1 week off in that time? In some ways I’m getting used to it – I have more energy than I did to start with, and it’s far less of an adrenaline rush these days – but in other ways I’m tired. My introvert side needs a week of talking to and seeing hardly anyone, so that I can feel normal again.

…….

Before I started teaching I wondered if I would cope. I’m now working more consistently than I ever knew I was capable of. It’s a test of endurance for a normal person, let alone someone who used to be unable to leave the house or make eye contact. I enjoy it. I enjoy the teaching, the students… but it’s hard. Some things are suffering:  And when I have my next week off in another 5 months’ time please don’t call me, text me, or email me. I’ll be in the mountains somewhere, alone, with my thoughts.

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How to travel as a vegan (and a reaction to Anthony Bourdain)

I’ve hitch-hiked, couchsurfed, camped, stayed in hostels lived in more than a few countries. All as a vegan. Unsurprisingly, when I started eating a plant-based diet it was one of the things I worried about most, as I already loved travel. I wouldn’t say that I had an opinion as extreme as Anthony Bourdain (an opinionated chef) in my pre-vegan days, but the motives behind refusing hospitality weren’t exactly ones I understood. Here’s a taste of his eloquent, beautifully phrased sentiments:

“They make for bad travelers and bad guests. The notion that before you even set out to go to Thailand, you say, ‘I’m not interested,’ or you’re unwilling to try things that people take so personally and are so proud of and so generous with, I don’t understand that, and I think it’s rude. You’re at Grandma’s house, you eat what Grandma serves you.”

You think that’s bad? Here’s what he says about vegans:

“Being a vegan is a first-world phenomenon, completely self-indulgent.”

Excuse me while I go into the corner until I stop laughing. This statement is so ironic to me that I can’t even take it as an insult. For the record, though, I don’t eat what my Grandma cooks when I visit. I cook her vegan food, and even though she complains a little, she eats it and I’m pretty sure enjoys it.

I was worried about seeming like a bad guest, though. I’ve done some thinking since then. When was the last time you saw an article called ‘reasons Jews and Muslims are bad travellers because it’s not Kosher and Halal.’ (Opinions on Halal meat, again, save for another day.) The difference being, religious diets often hold a respect that vegetarian/vegan ones don’t. I’m still waiting to see an article called ‘Why the Buddha makes a bad traveler and guest, and if he visits me he’ll eat beef and thank me for being generous.’ Think that’s going to happen?

Probably not.

What Bourdain handily looks past is that respect it a two way street. When I travel I am more than open to immersing myself in their culture, their language, and their food. As long as no animals are harmed. And I hope that they can respect that, just as I in turn respect their religions and customs. So far the only people who it seems to offend… are those sitting at home.

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Top to bottom, left to right: a ‘haggis’ and cranberry panini at a cafe on an island in the North of Scotland, a ripe papaya for dinner in Taiwan, an extortionately expensive raw vegan patty burger in London, and an amazing traditional style thing in Brno, Czech Republic.

How to eat when you’re a broke vegan travelling

Emergency food I travel with in my bag:

Rye bread (if possible, easy to find in Europe, not so in Asia), peanut butter, vegetable spreads/pates, bananas, apples, trail-mix and/or nuts. Sometimes there’s also a potato and an onion in there to cook at a host’s.

A standard day’s food on the road:

Breakfast: Fruit of some sort, usually bananas. I’ll add in bread or have oatmeal if I’m feeling super hungry.

Lunch: Some restaurants will have a vegetable soup, often I can find something involving noodles. I can usually find fruit or veg, or peanut butter and crackers when all else fails.

Dinner: Happy Cow is a godsend. I can usually find somewhere in any city I’m in that does vegan food. If I’m cooking, I’ll often do a potato/onion/mushroom/tofu fry up which is quick, cheap, and I can find the ingredients almost anywhere in the world. I carry small bags of spices in my backpack to add, carefully packaged.

I’m not good at being hungry. And I like hot meals. Couchsurfing is usual for travelling as a vegan because I can often find at least a vegetarian to stay with, or the person is willing to translate when we go out for food so I know what I’m eating.

The main thing is prepare, prepare, prepare. Make sure you have a few granola/cliff bars stashed away, so that when an emergency happens you’re okay. I’m a purist within reason, too – if there’s bread on offer, I’ll check it’s not been friend in lard or something, but I’m often a little more flexible about it containing milk or egg if I can’t tell and there’s nothing else. Chances are, it’s vegan. Better that than something that definitely has animal products in it.

Bottom line is, I’ve made it this far. And it only gets easier to travel as a vegan. It shouldn’t be a reason to put you off – veganism or travelling. And vegan food tourism is a fantastic way to see a city. Hunting down that little vegan place down a back alley in a city leads you past amazing places that you might never have experienced had you settled for the omni-place on the high-street. There are ways, there are means, and there are rewards.

P.s., here’s the full Anthony Bourdain article if you feel like it.

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New Vegan Restaurants in Taipei – Mianto

Curiously two of the new vegan restaurants in Taipei – Mianto and Naked Food – are within a stone’s throw of each other. Mianto has been open a little longer. They originally started as a bakery and simple cafe, but then people started walking in, sitting down and demanding food. And so the Mianto that exists today was born.

It’s a little hard to find, as they still have an interior design sign about the door – so look for the glass window and the flag, not the sign. Inside is wide and spacious. I particularly like their VIP room, and the large glass window that now has chairs and tables so it’s possible to sit in the sun.

The menu still seems to be a bit of a work in progress. Once I was told that they weren’t prepared to function as a restaurant, just as a bakery, this made a lot more sense. They serve pastas, curries and a pizza. The food is good, but it’s food I can also make at home and therefore I’m not overly inclined to go there if I have time to cook. It’s very tasty and filling though: and the pasta is the most generous serving size of any pasta I’ve had here. It won’t leave you hungry.

The cakes are where the creativity is, and it’s where Mianto really shines. I’m now in the habit of cycling down whenever I have a spare few hours for a cake and some coffee. It’s a relaxed atmosphere, and I feel comfortable sitting and writing for several hours without being glared at for taking up a seat. Occasionally the owner, Michel, will wander over to talk. It’s warm and welcoming, and the cakes are laden with fruit or chocolate, dense and moist. The coffee is excellent, and they do a Miantochino, which is a coffee with whipped cream piled high on top. I haven’t found vegan whipped cream here, and it’s something I love, so this was a real treat for me.

I have high hopes for Mianto, and think that there’s a lot of potential in the menu. I order the pasta when I’m in if I’m hungry, but it’s the coffee and cake that keeps me a regular.

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Top to bottom, left to right: Mianto’s pasta, cupcakes and coffee, chana masala, bread.
My own photo taking skills got forgotten in my eagerness to eat and drink, and so these photos are professional ones kindly provided by Michel when I mentioned I wanted to write about Mianto on my blog.

Rating:

Taste – 5/5 for the cakes, 4/5 for the mains

Value – 5/5 for the cakes and drinks, 4/5 for the mains

Atmosphere – 5/5

Details

Address:台北新生南路1段146巷7號1樓. Xinsheng S. Road, lane 146, nr 7, 1F Taipei, ZhongZheng, Taipei, Taiwan

Phone number: 02 2321 9749

Facebook page: Mianto 米愛多

They now open for dinner as well as lunch, and are open Tues-Sun 11am-9pm. Check Facebook for the latest opening times and menu.

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New Vegan Restaurants in Taipei – Naked Food

A host of new vegan restaurants have been springing up across the city. When I touched down, several were still in their infancy and in the eight months since I arrived in Taipei, two or three more have opened. Here’s the first in a rundown of what Taipei offers for Western style vegan eating.

Naked Food

This is the baby on the block. They opened for retail at the new year, and for business at the start of February. As the name might suggest, everything they offer is raw vegan.

Raw veganism is something I’m open to dabbling in, but when I hear ‘raw’ I also hear high price tag and small portions. Naked Food’s menu is a fraction of the price tag that it would have been in London (where I once spent $40 USD on a soup, a small raw burger and a side of six sweet potato fries and left still peckish) but it still isn’t cheap compared to most of the vegan dining in Taipei.

The food and the decor are both beautifully presented. The kitchen is all stainless steel and stretches to the back of the room, covering as much floor as the dining area. I didn’t see them actually using the kitchen though – the food appeared through a hatch in the floor – so I’m assuming that the kitchen is for teaching culinary classes.

The coffee/tea portions are generous, although they use soy milk to make their lattes – I was expecting coconut or nut milks, which I would have preferred. They had the nice touch of coconut sugar, instead of normal sugar, which made the soy milk particularly surprising. We all ordered pizzas so we could split them between us. Here are some highlights:

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Left to right top to bottom: Naked Food from the front; Chocolate and oat berry squares; Strawberry vanilla bean cake; ChimChurri pizza, cauliflower, tomato, marinated onion, tree nut cheese; Avocado pizza with beet root carpaccio, preserved lemon and tree nut cheese.

The owners were lovely and welcoming and definitely added a lot to the dining experience. They’re extremely passionate about their food, and I believe the menu will develop a lot over the next few months. The pizzas were delicious: the unanimous favourite being the ChimChurri cauliflower pizza which was divine. The food was fresh, delicious and full of flavour. It’s some of the best and healthiest vegan food I’ve tasted here.

My price tag for a decent amount of pizza, the raw strawberry vanilla bean pie and a latte came to 760ntd. This is the most I’ve spent on a meal here so far, and while it was enjoyable, my friend sent me a message afterwards which I echo: ‘did we really just pay 320ntd for a piece of pie??’

A lot of us left hungry, too, but they assure us they’ll be creating a more filling lunch menu soon with larger portions. It will include pasta, lasagne, wraps and flatbreads and I have no doubt it will be delicious. They are keen to develop their menu, and I will watch is eagerly. I’m not sure I’d pay that much for lunch again, or at least I’d save up first, but I’d go back for a coffee and I would like to try the lunch menu… when my bank balance has recovered a little. For me, at least, it’s somewhere I’ll save as a treat.

Rating:

Taste – 5/5

Value – 3/5

Atmosphere – 5/5

Details

Address:台北市中正區新生南路1段160巷22-1號, Taipei, Taiwan,

Phone number: 02 2396 2202

Facebook: NAKEDFOOD by Delicious Taipei

Check the Facebook page for opening hours and updated menus.

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